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Written by ktmom12 on September 25, 2019

Dear future daughter in law

Family journey . Katie

As a mother of nine sons, I often think of the day they will leave me and become one with some other woman.  A bond between a son and his mother is different than the one between a daughter and mother.  My son’s instinctively protect me and care for me even when they are small.  I don’t know if that is true for all mom’s and boys.  But for me and my boys, we have a very close relationship even without talking.  Now I love talking and visiting, and my boys are always good listeners, and when they do say something I listen too.

I truly have no idea where the wonderful women who will marry my boys will come from.  I am not sure if there can possibly be any girl good enough for my boys.  But seriously, I look forward to meeting the lady who catches my sons’ eye and heart.

But there are somethings I want that woman to know, so I decided to write her a letter:

Dear Future Daughter in Law,

I am so excited that my son has chosen you to share his life with.  I have been praying for you since the day he was born.  I pray that you love Yehovah God with all you are.  I pray that you know the joy and blessing of walking close to Him.  I pray that you are strong and humble in heart.  I pray that you are prepared to be the perfect helper for my son.  I pray that you can humbly follow where ever he is led.  I pray that you and I will be close friends.  I selfishly pray that you will live close by and come over often.

I want you to know that even though I am a mom of many children, I have room in my heart and life for you.  I want you to know that even though I am loud, confident, and inquisitive, I am not judging you or condemning you.  I am just curious and excited to be apart of your life.  I want you to know that if you ask me for advice, I will gladly share it, and even if you don’t take it I will love and support you and my son.  I want you to know that I am aware that a woman, like myself, can be intimidating to be around, but trust me, I have learned many things the hard way, and if I can share what I have learned with you and help you avoid the hard way, I am an open book.  I want you to know that as long and you and my son seek after Truth with all your heart, I will be in your corner cheering you on, and if you lose your way, I will be there to pick you up and help you get back on the right path.

I don’t expect you to be perfect.  I don’t expect you to be like me.

My greatest hope is that you will always be growing and learning each day, and that I can be a part of your journey.

Precious woman of God, I have prayed and prayed for you and I will always be here for you.

I can’t wait to meet you, and I pray you are safe in the arms of Yehovah today and everyday.

Shalom,

Your future mother in law

 

 

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